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timing is the essential ingredient of succes... BEING the right man, at the right place, at the right time and at the right mood..
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a man of refined manners and good breeding; a shrewd guy ever so cunning, in simple wolrds- smart, intelligent, gentleman- is highly acclaimed hero of every woman...
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dirs always something good that comes out of every life experience. good times become good memories, bad times become good lessons....
You can neve lose... You only gain..
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Every teardrop is so precious, so beter make sure that if you drop some, it's worth cryin' for co'z you can never pick them up and put it back to your eyes....
"LOVE WISELY..."
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Friday, March 19, 2004
A WOMANS QUESTION
Do you know you have aked for the costliest thing
ever made by the hands above?
a woman's heart, and a woman's life--
and a woman's wonderful love.
Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing
as a child might ask for a toy?
demanding what others havedied to win,
with the reckless dasg of a boy.
You have written my lesson of duty out,
manlike, you have questioned me.
now stand at the bars of my woman's soul
Until I shall question thee...
You require your mutton shall always be hot,
your socks and your shirt be whle;
i require your heart be true as God's stars
And as pure as hi heaven your soul.
You require a cook for your mutton or beef,
i require a fa greater thing;
a seamstress you'rewanting for socks and shirts-
i look for a man and a king.
a king for the beautiful realm called HOME,
and a man that his maker,God
Shall look upon as he did on the first
And say "it is ver good".
i am fair and young, but the rose may fade
from this soft young cheek one day;
will you love me then 'mid the falling leaves,
As you did 'mong the blossoms of May?
Is your heart an ocean so strong and true,
i may launch my all on its tide?
a loving woman finds heaven or hell
on the day she is made a bride.
i require all things that are grand and true,
all things that a man should be;
if you give this al, i would stake my life
to be all you demand of me.
if you cannot be this, a laundress and cook
You can hire a little pay;
but a woman's heart and a woman's life
Are not to be won that way...
Do you know you have aked for the costliest thing
ever made by the hands above?
a woman's heart, and a woman's life--
and a woman's wonderful love.
Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing
as a child might ask for a toy?
demanding what others havedied to win,
with the reckless dasg of a boy.
You have written my lesson of duty out,
manlike, you have questioned me.
now stand at the bars of my woman's soul
Until I shall question thee...
You require your mutton shall always be hot,
your socks and your shirt be whle;
i require your heart be true as God's stars
And as pure as hi heaven your soul.
You require a cook for your mutton or beef,
i require a fa greater thing;
a seamstress you'rewanting for socks and shirts-
i look for a man and a king.
a king for the beautiful realm called HOME,
and a man that his maker,God
Shall look upon as he did on the first
And say "it is ver good".
i am fair and young, but the rose may fade
from this soft young cheek one day;
will you love me then 'mid the falling leaves,
As you did 'mong the blossoms of May?
Is your heart an ocean so strong and true,
i may launch my all on its tide?
a loving woman finds heaven or hell
on the day she is made a bride.
i require all things that are grand and true,
all things that a man should be;
if you give this al, i would stake my life
to be all you demand of me.
if you cannot be this, a laundress and cook
You can hire a little pay;
but a woman's heart and a woman's life
Are not to be won that way...
---somethin' to ponder on..------
(it's true...very true)
If a guy and a girl skips the friendship stge of their relationship,
LUST often becomes the common interest that brings back
the couple together. as a result, they gauge the
seriousnessof their relationship by the level of their
physical involvement.... they wanna feel that they're
special to each other.. and concretely express this
through physical intimacy--- hand holding, to
kissing and everything else follows...
physical involvement can make two people feel close. but if many people in dating relationship really examined the focus of their realtionships, they probably discover that ALL they HAVE in COMMON is LUST.... (ait?!)ΓΌ
(it's true...very true)
If a guy and a girl skips the friendship stge of their relationship,
LUST often becomes the common interest that brings back
the couple together. as a result, they gauge the
seriousnessof their relationship by the level of their
physical involvement.... they wanna feel that they're
special to each other.. and concretely express this
through physical intimacy--- hand holding, to
kissing and everything else follows...
physical involvement can make two people feel close. but if many people in dating relationship really examined the focus of their realtionships, they probably discover that ALL they HAVE in COMMON is LUST.... (ait?!)ΓΌ
SiMpLe TRUTHS on LoVe
it is simply a mystery why we fall in love
it is a mystery how it happens
it is simply a mystery why some love grows and why some love fall.
you can analyze and look for reasons and causes
but you will never do any more than take life out of experience.
love is more than the sum of interest and attractions and commonalities than two people shae.
and just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its time,
the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be quesioned in its way.
too often,when ove comes to people, they try to grasp and hold it tto them, refusing tp see that it is a gift freely given and a gift hat freely moves away.
when they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost, rather than accepting the gift for what it was.
they want answers where theee are no answers.
they want to know what is wrong with them, or try to get the love to change, thinkin' that if ssome small things were different, love would bloom again.
they blame thei circumstances.they blame each other. they try anythin' to give meaning to what happened. but thee is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until hey accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
you need to treat what love brings you with kindness.
if you find yourself in love wwith someone who does not love, be gentle with yourself. there is nothing wrong with you..
love just didin't choose to rest in the other person's heart..
if you find someone in love with you whom you feel no love, feel honored that love came and calledat your door, but gently refuse the gift that you cannot return. do not take advantage, do not cause pain... How you deal with love is How love deals with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are very different...
if you fall in love with another who falls in love wih you, and then love chooses to leave, do not reclaim it, or assess blame. LET IT GO.. there's a reason and there is a meaning. you will know in time, but time itself will choose its moment...
REMEMBER THIS, keep it in your heart. you don't choose love, love chooses you.. all you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. feel the way love fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. give it back to he person who brought it to you. give it to othes who seem poor in spirit. give it to the world in any best way you can...
LOVE has its own time, its own season and its own reason for coming and going... you cannot bribe it or curse it or reason it into staying...
if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, then there is nothinig you can do, and nothin you should do...
be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life...
JUST keep your heart OPEN... and it will surely come AGAIN....
it is simply a mystery why we fall in love
it is a mystery how it happens
it is simply a mystery why some love grows and why some love fall.
you can analyze and look for reasons and causes
but you will never do any more than take life out of experience.
love is more than the sum of interest and attractions and commonalities than two people shae.
and just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its time,
the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be quesioned in its way.
too often,when ove comes to people, they try to grasp and hold it tto them, refusing tp see that it is a gift freely given and a gift hat freely moves away.
when they fall out of love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving, they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost, rather than accepting the gift for what it was.
they want answers where theee are no answers.
they want to know what is wrong with them, or try to get the love to change, thinkin' that if ssome small things were different, love would bloom again.
they blame thei circumstances.they blame each other. they try anythin' to give meaning to what happened. but thee is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until hey accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
you need to treat what love brings you with kindness.
if you find yourself in love wwith someone who does not love, be gentle with yourself. there is nothing wrong with you..
love just didin't choose to rest in the other person's heart..
if you find someone in love with you whom you feel no love, feel honored that love came and calledat your door, but gently refuse the gift that you cannot return. do not take advantage, do not cause pain... How you deal with love is How love deals with you, and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are very different...
if you fall in love with another who falls in love wih you, and then love chooses to leave, do not reclaim it, or assess blame. LET IT GO.. there's a reason and there is a meaning. you will know in time, but time itself will choose its moment...
REMEMBER THIS, keep it in your heart. you don't choose love, love chooses you.. all you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. feel the way love fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. give it back to he person who brought it to you. give it to othes who seem poor in spirit. give it to the world in any best way you can...
LOVE has its own time, its own season and its own reason for coming and going... you cannot bribe it or curse it or reason it into staying...
if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, then there is nothinig you can do, and nothin you should do...
be glad that it came to live for a moment in your life...
JUST keep your heart OPEN... and it will surely come AGAIN....
Thursday, March 18, 2004
m done with my thing
m done with those useless moments
m done with these stuffs
and i'm done..really..co'z i'm tough!!!
- - - ha!ha!
m done with you anway
and it's time for you to stay away..
get a life...
stop haunting my mind...
stop bothering my head...
there's this smile that i hid
a laughter that i miss
the "ME" that was lost
and "I" that once was so slow and low...
these has to end...
just stop those - i plead
co'z m over you SoMeHoW!!!!
m done with those useless moments
m done with these stuffs
and i'm done..really..co'z i'm tough!!!
- - - ha!ha!
m done with you anway
and it's time for you to stay away..
get a life...
stop haunting my mind...
stop bothering my head...
there's this smile that i hid
a laughter that i miss
the "ME" that was lost
and "I" that once was so slow and low...
these has to end...
just stop those - i plead
co'z m over you SoMeHoW!!!!